New year post...
Just a note.. this is not a funny post or whatsoever..so if u are looking for jokes and laughter..u can stop now ba..haha..
hmm..first post of the year..just came back from watching the fireworks..hmm..dunno leh..somehow i dun really appreciate the fireworks ba..i meant this year de seems very messy and uncoordinated..dun really feel nice though it's quite long..still not worth it ba..i think..oh well..
anyway..this post aint about fireworks ba.. currently i'm in my study room next to my parents' room..they are talking..in dialect..but i can more or less understand..just cant speak that well though..haha..hmm..talking about my mother's family ba.. hmm..dun wish to go into details.. i just thought.. if my grandmother were to pass away(touch wood touch wood), i think the family will definitely break up..no more visiting my grandma house etc..no more gathering.. good thing is i have more personal time, bad thing is less of family time.. i mean sometimes i admit that the elderly may be hard to take care of..a lot of things need to be taken care of..it frustrates one..especially if u are taking care of someone who is not blood related to you..it even frustrates u more i guess..but even so, it's still part of your responsibility to take care of her and also do mind your words at times even though u may be a straightforward person.. u gotta be sensitive to things u say, especially to things that the elderly hold dear to..the elderly may be a hassle at times.. but to take a step back.. it's the key that holds the family together.. it's the only person that can bring a family together and at least interact..without her, i believe a lot of things will definitely change.. the change will come inevitably but i really hope that change will not come so soon..that is perhaps part of my new year resolution ba..
as for the person in the matter.. after what i hear..though i do believe that it may be unfair to judge a person jus based on what my mom says.. but i will definitely view her in a different light now.. but i aint gonna show it that obviously..it wont do me any good... perhaps.. in this case some may say i'm a hypocrite..i too hate hypocrites.. rather than saying a hypocrite..why not say that everyone wears a mask, a different mask with different ppl.. once the mask is off..u have no idea how ugly the person might be..i definitely hope that my friends are not wearing a thick mask in front of me..cos i'm trying my best to show who i am in front of them..and i hope that they will do the same as well..haha..
hmm..boring post,interesting post?.. doesnt matter to me..just typing how i feel..
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