today went to watch 'I Not Stupid Too' with meiying, chris, adam and john...it's been quite a while since i watched a movie...but i doubt i can break the record set by john...mind you...he said that his last movie was watched when he was 5 years old! can you believe that?! oh god... anyway...the movie was great...touching and funny...
the movie started off with a question...which i thought was rather meaningful...'When was the last time you praised someone for what he has done?' i think as parents, they should always look on the good side of the children from time to time...not say everytime...cos you gotta correct him when he went wrong....but i think parents need to strike a balance between the two sides and not just one side...it will do the child no good...at all..
this comes to the point as to what i was facing...as seen in my last entry...my o'levels results...not say i'm boasting...but it was rather good...at least to me... almost everyone in my family gave some praises, my uncles, cousins, brother and even my father( who dont really speak much to me)....surprisingly...the only one who did not praise me...was my mother...strange? she is the closest person to me in the family...yet this happened.. it felt kinda weird...she din praise me in front of my uncles...rather...she sounded a bit condemning...saying that i did not read enough materials...that is why my english is so lousy...ok i admitted i did not read enough newspapers...fine...but was it really necessary to bring it up? also...part of it was that i dont really have a flair for english...cant really expect that much can you? i felt kinda angry...it felt as if the other subjects din matter at all...she only saw the worst in me...that feeling sux...perhaps that is why teenagers prefer talking to their friends rather than their parents...acceptance and admiration of their talents instead of their weaknesses...i think that is all we want...
anyway...my prob kinda solved...my mom told me during dinner that she is going to keep up her part of the deal...which was to agree to upgrade my cpu...so some things...i think we as children should do as well... read and interpret their actions instead of expecting them to say it out...sometimes...saying it out is even harder than doing it... so...moral of story...be more forgiving to the parents ba...they are too learning how to be parents at the same time...haha
oh ya...lastly...i felt that the movie was a great one...i really dont mind watching it again sia...haha... oh well...that's about it...ciao!~
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